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Amanda’s gift
Thursday, 26 March 2009
FORWARD OPERATING BASE DELTA, Iraq – While on environmental and morale leave, Army Chaplain (Maj.) Stanley Allen, chaplain for 41st Fires Brigade, accompanied his daughter to MD Anderson Hospital in Houston for her quarterly checkup. While in the waiting room, he was intrigued by a teenage girl sitting in the waiting area, so he struck up a conversation.
The following is an excerpt from a blog by Amanda’s mother, Denise McDaniel, about the events of that day, and the impact that it had on their lives.
The following was reprinted with minor corrections with permission from Denise McDaniel. For more information about Amanda and her parents, go to www.cheersforamanda.blogspot.com .
In the midst of long days, scans and the apprehension that we all feel as we face the upcoming lung surgery on Thursday, it would be easy to give in or give up under the emotion and weight of it all.
So many details, so much information, so many doctors...it just goes on and on. But occasionally, here in the midst of hundreds of hallways and a multitude of people, hours in waiting rooms and exam rooms, something happens. Something that stops you and reminds you...He is here.
Today our scans began at 6:45 a.m., and by the time we had reached our last appointment of the day, scheduled for 3:30 p.m., we were more than ready to be done. Larry found a couple of chairs and a table near the windows in a waiting area down the hall and I had taken Amanda to the MRI check-in desk for her scan. I had planned to wait until she was called back for her scan then go join Larry. That never happened...
As I stood in line to sign Amanda in and get her paperwork completed, I noticed that a man had come and sat down near her and begun to talk. Amanda was smiling and telling him about her surgery and new leg, and I could tell it seemed like a friendly, comfortable conversation for her. When I completed the information sheet, I went over and joined them.
The gentleman was an Army Chaplain, home for his 18 days of "R & R" before returning to his third tour of duty in Iraq. His daughter was at MD also having an MRI because of a past tumor and he had been home in time to attend this with her. Surprisingly, Amanda was called in quite quickly (that doesn't happen very often!) and when she left, our conversation continued.
The heart that this Chaplain has for "his troops" was evident in every word that he spoke about them. He shared that just days before his leave, he had lost three young men and had three more lose a limb because of a bomb or other injuries. It was clear how this hurt his heart. Seeing Amanda with her amputation had drawn him to her.
On and on our conversation continued. His daughter completed her scans and our conversation continued with her and his wife joining in as well. For over two hours we talked, sharing of his time and the soldiers, of his daughter's battle and of Amanda's. Finally, after exchanging our blog site information and his unit email information, we said our goodbyes. Quietly I was thanking God for him and his family, continued healing for his daughter, and asking for protection for the men and women who serve our country and who are overseas at this time. That would seem to be a blessing enough, but that is not the reason for sharing this story.
Moments later, I looked up to see the Chaplain standing alone in front of me. He quietly told me how much meeting Amanda had meant to him and the honor in the way she was facing her battle. With that he reached in and pulled out his dog tags. He showed me and explained that he always wore those, two of them were his Army issued identification tags. A third one was one that he had added and he said that many soldiers wore. It had a unit name on it and the verse from Joshua 1:9, "I will be strong and courageous. I will not be discouraged; for the Lord my God is with me wherever I go." He told me that he had worn it during his tour of duty in Iraq. And then he handed it to me and asked that I give it to Amanda.
Through tears I told him no, that his own family should have such a significant piece of his time in Iraq, but he insisted, saying he wanted her to carry it now. After tears and a hug, he was gone.
Across from me, a man watching and listening to the exchange wiped his eyes and said this to me. "I have seen many great things happen here at MD Anderson. But sometimes the most significant things are not medical. That soldier and that tag is one of the most significant things I have ever witnessed. Truly God was here."
Truly. A dog tag from Iraq and an Army Chaplain, two young girls fighting their own battles, troops who willingly serve in far off lands...truly God is here in a waiting room at MD and with a Chaplain and his troops overseas.
And today, He let me see Him here.
Posted by Denise McDaniel at 11:40 PM on Feb 17, 2009.
“I did not think that it would ever have that kind of meaning to her, but God does use insignificant things at times to be able to touch other people’s lives,” said Allen after receiving a thank-you email from Amanda’s mom.
“It’s just a way at times where we can think it may not mean that much to me, but to somebody else that I present something to, it really touches their lives and it brings encouragement and strength to them,” he added.
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